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Here are some resources that many of us have found useful in our healing journeys.

  • If you have a suggestion for a resource that you’d like us to consider, let us know via the Contact Us form how it’s helped you. Please include a link so that others can find your resource. 

 

BETRAYAL TRAUMA

  1. Dr. Ramani Durvasula

I’ve just recently learned of Dr. Ramani’s work – and it’s incredible. I was immediately touched by this YouTube episode which focuses on betrayal trauma. Dr. Ramani specializes in narcissism (and the related betrayal trauma from being in a relationship with a narcissist).

 

NARCISSISM

  1. Wendy Behary

Wendy Behary is a clinician, best-selling author and international expert on narcissism and understands the related betrayal trauma experienced by survivors of narcissistic abuse. Immensely respected by clinicians and lay-people alike, Wendy has been studying and treating both narcissists and survivors of narcissistic abuse long before the subject of narcissism became popular – and, therefore, brings solid, practical wisdom to the topic. 

Additionally, Wendy personally facilitates a super-affordable online support community ($39/month at time of writing) that I have been part of for years. The value is indescribable. Members can submit a real-life question to Wendy. Then, during the monthly live member-only sessions, Wendy reads member questions (without mentioning the member’s name) and offers direct and thoughtful answers. I have no affiliate relationship with Wendy, and mention this community only out of my tremendous debt of gratitude to Wendy, who has helped me enormously after suffering a serious trauma at the hands of a covert narcissist. 

  • Book: Disarming the Narcissist (very readable and practical) is a practical, step-by-step guide to help you cope with and confront the narcissist in your life. Purchase links
  • Healing Community (currently only $39/month at time of writing) for those who have been affected by a narcissist. Membership includes direct access to Wendy’s wisdom and the ability to submit a real-life question directly to Wendy (which she answers confidentially in her live sessions) and more: Loving, Living, Leaving…With the Narcissist in Your Life  
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